Added by Jessica Mazzone
on October 12, 2014
http://www.practicalhappiness.com What you should and should not do when you realize that the girl you are interested in is not interested in you.
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If you meet a girl and she says your not her type, DONT FREAK OUT!!! If you
do and start questioning her, itll come across as weak and pathetic. Just
play it cool and act like it dosnt matter and that its her loss, but dont
say that. Be friends. Continue taking her on dates if shes willing, and
making the best impression that you can. If she starts dating someone elce
or says she likes someone, stop ALL contact. this will get her thinking
about you. Keep in mind this only works on about 80%
@MrKeepnit100 then u need to move on big man, life is too short to waste it
on those girls that dont appreciate your true value, or good nature, at the
end of the day MrKeepnit, it their loss, keep reminding yourself how good u
are as a person, rock n roll 😉
haha i use to do that but now i stop
What if the boy leads u on
okay so…my girl is being very weird. shes been avoiding me alot and the
physical side of our relationship has stopped almost completely and i think
she isnt interested in me anymore. = im so sad….
@mrsolofeo I know right? It must be really hard if the charade continues.
@RSCII are you for gay marriage?
Nope not interest. I don’t feel like it.
if a girl turns me down, i see it as, she has her choice like i have mine
to date anyone i like its a free country.
THAT’S WHY you need to BE the SELECTOR!! YOU as the MAN are the one in the
position of selecting or rejecting women. YOU as the MAN need to have the
mindset of…”Is this woman worthy of me bringing her into my life, and
into my circle of family and family friends”/ If so, then SELECT her…if
not, then reject her. It;s SIMPLE once you have the right mindset. YOU are
in CONTROL…NOT the woman.
i like a girl very much. And i asked her if she feels the same way, but she
didn´t so i just said ok and trying to move on but i can´t stop think about
Just make sure to keep the flirting non-physical and if you think someone
is getting the wrong idea you can try casually flirting with other guys in
their company. Be careful though, make sure your flirting is of a very
similar kind and level as with the first guy or you risk making him jealous.
@FreeOnlineWorkouts IS THIS SERIOSE or is it some virus site
i know im gunna sound like a big pussy but i literally cried and begged for
her back. (long story) but i never did anything really wrong. i dont
understand. this happened only an hour ago. :_(
acan can i do if a man was interested ??? and he lost the interest? why is
@JayJayGrady4U LOL you amuse me
HA your right I forgot about that one… I like the sandwich analogy will
use that thanks
One thing you MIGHT want to do (notice the big word “might”) if you end on
good terms… well I started typing too early – he answered it in the
video! But I was going to say if you leave or stay friends with her on good
terms, then you could say “please tell me what I did wrong so I’ll know
next time never to do that thing again” (of course, implying with someone
else!) And don’t forget women are human beings too. They DON’T want people
weirding out all around them all the time!
I think that “convincing” shouldn’t even be in your mindset when attracting
a women. I think the guy should just wanna be friends with all of them and
if you guys get along she’ll let you know she wants to go out. Most guys
just don’t have any inner game, which is what they all have to cover.
Naw you don’t start off as friends frist homie big mistake only attraction
first than go out for dates etc. That business lands you in the friends
zone quick most women use that as a excuse
In the end between a male and female, its about “chemistry” anyway. That’s
the “X” factor. You can do everything RIGHT but its still all wrong. And
that works both ways. Have faith in yourself to attract a compatible
person, who will be the best person to have in your life. Women are
instinctively attracted to men who REALLY like women, not just those who
pretend to. Analyze your attitudes and be really honest with yourself. (and
that works both ways too!)
your kitchen is very nice
one way to MAYBE reverse the sittuation a litle bit, is if she says no to
you, you say ” shame, we would really work out together”.just say it like
it was nothing, but at the same time putting emotions into those words.
that way you wont sound desperate and it will get her THINKING she may
realize that you dont like her anymore, but you made a sugestion to her,
and that litle sentence may help in some way. Maybe in the future you wil
have a relationship, its hard,but its better then a simple no
You are SO RIGHT-ON with this. I’ve been asked often by guys I don’t want
to date “why? what’s wrong with me? I’m so-and-so, I do such-and-such.. ”
.. If I’m not attracted to a man because of something in his personality,
or a physical trait I find too unappealing to overlook, that’s the way it
is, and I will not ‘learn to love him’.
Your super cute :p
Try it first before u criticize bitch. If u have the balls that is.
@Johnkarnias Friend, when I was your age I felt exactly the same way. Now
when I look back, I regret having spent so much time and energy thinking
about the one girl. Even if you feel that way, you should at least date
other girls. That can only help you. Girls are afraid of someone who is
clingy. If you are able to free your mind from her at least a little you
will become more attractive to her. You don’t have to give up. But do
yourself a favor and explore the possibilities.
In addition to my comment below: I disagree with the fact not to ask why
he/she is not interested in you because its at least good to know the
flaws/mistakes that were made so they can be improved upon in the future.
Having more time can also play a crucial role in fixing the problem. I
mean, its understable if you made a big fool of yourself on one of the
dates, like getting heavily drunk and banging a receiver of a pay phone
like a friend of a room-mate did when he had his chance with a girl.
yeah whatever dude, You sound full of shit.
@987koolkid it’ll be okay, man…. if she’s worth your time, she’ll see how
much you care and feel the same way. just don’t show too much weakness. and
mess with her head a little. at one point, tell her she looks beautiful
when she’s wearing regular clothes but don’t compliment her when she’s
When a chick turns me down, I do not talk to her again. I just cant do that
friend junk after she turns me down, and ends up dating another person down
the line. Just me though. Im not saying every guy should do that. If she is
not intersted, then she doesnt understand. Hell with it.
and if things are on your terms then she is basically thrown thru a loop
because most guys she encounters make the fatal mistake of leaving it up to
her DONT EVER DO THAT!!!!!
yeah really. if she doesn’t want you, or if she puts a lot of pressure on
you, it’s best to just let go. you would end up breaking up anyways because
you’re not feeling good together. You should look for a girl that you feel
good with, not a girl that puts too many conditions. and BTW, it IS easy to
get one. just stop wishing you did and try it!
@tedder1931 I hear what you mean and I think exactly the same, but I try to
stay friends on purpose because that way I know more people, get invited to
more parties and events and meet more new people 😉
He’s totally right.