Added by on January 15, 2015

Dating tips for women: find out how to be sexy on a date, from a Dating Coach for women. She'll tell you the best dating tips for being sexy.

Interview with Passionate Living Coach, Abiola Abrams.

Single in Stilettos Show #9

Suzanne Oshima, Founder of Single in Stilettos and Matchmaker & Dating Coach at Single in Stilettos interviews Abiola on how to be sexy on a date without sending out the wrong message.

Abiola tips for being sexy on a date without giving out the wrong signals:

– What is your energy that you're bringing to the date? Are you going in with a positive attitude, if not you need a reality check “Dating Time Out”
– Know when it's time to take a break from dating
– Don't list on your online dating profile everything you don't want.
– Focus on the positive things that have happened in your life
– Smile is your best asset
– How to dress for the date – Stay away from black, wear red.
– Wear a form fitting dress (not too tight) & stilettos – an outfit that accentuates your body
– Walk sexy and with confidence
– Wear nice lingerie
– Leave the house how you want the right man to meet you.
– Feel good in your skin
– Feminine energy is receptive energy
– Feel comfortable in receiving compliments
– Make a man feel needed
– Let him plan the date
– Let him take the lead
– Let him pay on a date
– If you try to pay you neutralize the date
– When you give him room to be a man, he'll step up to the plate.
– Make physical contact with him – touch his arm or hand – it sends out the signal that you're interested
– Men like to be complimented too on a date
– If you give off a neutral tone, he may not think you're interested
– When you touch him it releases oxytocin
– Communication on a date is not just talking, it's about listening too
– Why it's important to leave a little mystery
– Be confident on a date
– Don't approach a first date with such seriousness

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  • Luanie D 2 years ago

    When I was younger and dating an ex of mine, i was not confidence about
    myself. Now I know why I’m not attractive to him anymore. These are really
    GREAT tips!!! Seriously. 

  • Abiola Abrams 2 years ago

    Thanks, Suzanne K. Oshima! This video advice interview was awesome. “How to
    Be Sexy on a Date” – Interview with Matchmaker Suzanne of Single in
    Stilettos and Passionate Living Coach Abiola Abrams #video #dating

  • Single in Stilettos 2 years ago

    Thanks, Goddess….glad you liked it! 🙂 xoxo

  • Abiola Abrams 2 years ago

    This was great! Thanks, Suzanne!

  • GoddessGemCollection 2 years ago

    Empowering video ladies! Yes men like to receive compliments too and
    remembering they are nervous too. Thank you!!!

  • Single in Stilettos 2 years ago

    You’re welcome! And thanks for being an awesome guest! xoxo