Added by Amanda Childress
on June 18, 2014
Women are frustrated with their relationships and men that don't seem to “get it” when it comes to how women need to be loved and what men need to do to sust…
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Dating and marrying is a thing of the past. I think black women should
focus on maintaining and building some kind of economic security for them
selves. Nobody out here is going to catch you when you fall.
Never take advice from women. It’s always a lose lose situation with them.
It’s always what did u do wrong how u did it wrong and why it went wrong
with one as a man. Too many bitches need to get off that damn pedestal and
down back to earth. And some hoes need to be chopped down or tipped over
what she says is very true. ive observed women really respond to these
things. but i dont do it much, only about 10% of what my girlfriends seem
to want, if that. i just havent got the energy for a lot of it. after doing
all the things i have to do, and getting all the time i need with friends
and me time, there isnt much effort for it in me. so im just staying single
and having a fun life. much better for me than having a girlfriend.
And dates don’t have to be about going out to eat all the time. Get
creative, use your imagination when planning a date. Go to a museum, a
park, ask her out if you are walking your dog, go to a wine tasting, an
outdoor free concert, have a picnic, Lot’s of free activities you can do
instead of the dinner and movie.
@Debsterism Why does it have to be “that is what black men always do?” smh
Nobody can make another person happy. That is the truth.
“Of course he couldn’t because obivously he didn’t have the opportunities”
He had every opportunity and stop blaming the white man for black man’s
failures. No white man stopped my grandfather from showing affection to his
wife. No white man stopped him from any of that. You are such a big whiny
baby. He could have given her flowers, cooked dinner for her, rubbed her
feet, taken her out to eat, bought her a dress. He never did that because
he wasn’t raised to show affection to his wife.
“. It’s best a if a man just stays single. He can live his life how he
wants free of a headache, and free of the possiblity of ass rapage in
divorce court.” Or…he could always date other men and enjoy ass rapage
out of court.
” her views in other videos and in this video is encouraging women to be
high maintnenance and too agressive.” Another point as well. So what if a
woman is high maintenance and aggressive. Plenty of men are that way.
People can be however way they want to be, and you have a choice to love
them and put up with it, or leave and move on. Also If you are a 3 on a
scale of 10 and trying to date a woman who is an 8, 9, 10, and can have any
man she wants, you’re in for a challenge, same for women.
” men need to be more attentive to women but she needs to understand men
can’t be the emotional care taker and provider at the same damn time it’s
impossible!” Yet men expect women to be all of these things at the same
damn time, but when women expect men to reciprocate all of a sudden it’s
too much, she’s labeled as high maintanence and aggressive by ‘you’. A man
who thinks a woman who seeks his time and attention to show she’s important
doesn’t deserve a relationship. He’s selfish and lazy
Men . If your woman is boring she is not the one for u. She won’t take
intrest in what u do because of her own boredom. Make sure u get one that’s
exciting before u met her. Lol
@OmniRexDraconis You should, you are in a realtionship with a woman dummy.
” nobody is responsible for making you happy. if your not happy it because
your not happy with yourself! period!” This is a hallmarkk cardboard box
sentiment that people often repeat but don’t take the time to really know
what they are repeating. People and situations can most definitely affect
your mood and make a happy person unhappy. This can happen in your
professional and personal relationships. A happy person can be worn down by
a miserable unhappy person.
@Debsterism So if you want him to adapt to YOUR communication style,
doesn’t that mean that you are LAZY and don’t want to do any WORK? That
along with a complete lack of accountability on YOUR part.
Can women honestly ever be happy? It seems like a fruitless goal. Let’s say
a guy gave in to everything you suggested. The woman would say. Oh, He’s
boring or He’s clingy. Nobody can make another person happy. If they aren’t
happy with themselves. I agree that nobody wants to be in a relationship
alone. But no man wants to be a court jester either.
very good video thank you sooo much for doing this vid
….and your right were not living in the 20’s anymore were living in the
2010’s where marriages have a 50% divorce rate! and almost half of those
divorces are initiated by women simply because they can never be happy with
the one they love!
real talk! good job
Truth! Time and Attention, very important that men do that consistently in
keeping their women happy and content to be with them.
“even if a man is caring and attentive to his woman they will lable that
man as not having a Backbone!” I don’t know who ‘they’ are, but it seems
you maybe listening to or hanging around some silly immature males/females
who have not grown up and are high schoolish in their thinking. Mature,
intelligent women who want a great relationship with a man do not think
this. silly young girls barely out of high school or who have high school
mentality and silly dudes who have no sense think his way.
it is not possible to please a woman, they want to feel safe, dudes that
doesnt mean you can beat people up that means you have to be able to fund
whatever your playin with,
Get a free ride? Boy, sit down!!! When you go on the Internet, there are
MORE THAN ENOUGH articles, websites, blogs, audio, etc for women on how to
please their man and make them happy. There are SOO MANY things on them
that it’s nauseating. Now all of a sudden it’s our turn to give some advice
on how to make your woman happy, and now we’re selfish and don’t know what
we want? Maybe you’re mad because you think women should accept any old
treatment. Women know what they want, men just ignore it.
Everytime men listen to a woman’s opinion we either get two things your not
good enough or your not providing enough to make HER happy! Relationships
are about TWO people not ONE! when men give a woman too much and is not
getting anything back that called being taken advantage of! and shes
advocating women to be demanding and agressive and that never works because
you can drive a good man away by being too high maintenance Men have
options and they don’t need to be with you if they don’t want to
“Why marry when you can have continous supply of tight 18-22 year olds?
Besides you have no choice, you are beyond expiry date.” A young tight
18-22 year old can have the pick she wants, and if you ain’t young, tight,
nor have the money she ain’t gonna pick a broken down old man, those dudes
get laughed at. Only if you have Rich money do you get the endless supply
of tight young women, but most black men ain’t balling like that.
“t her views in other videos and in this video is encouraging women to be
high maintnenance and too agressive” It seems to me that you are ‘choosing’
to date women who are aggressive/high mantainence and selfish, now weren’t
you attempting (a few comments back) to blame the victim, (women for
choosing to date losers), then why are you doing the same thing? But you
probably didn’t know how these women were when you first dated them. same
as women don’t always know ahead of time.
“I’ve dated older women in hopes that they were more mature in mind and
spirit but now I realized some of them have selfish agendas too” You don’t
get any guarantees when you date, and you’re not ‘entitled to think that
you are going to find Ms. Perfect right at jump. Dating is like ‘shopping,
you date, if it doesn’t fit what you want, you move on.. simple is that.