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Dating Coach Kat gives tips on flirting and how to read signals on another episode of TV's “3 Takes”. Visit my website for info. on coaching: www.datingessentials.com

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  • amyh423 2 years ago

    Very good video! I always assume guys are not flirting with me, just being
    friendly. Perhaps one day we will see a video about how to know if men are
    flirting?

  • Bobzeaux 2 years ago

    Oh no, I know that. I’m talking to the women whom you’re addressing with
    this vid. The probability of things carrying out is INFINITELY less if a
    guy makes the first move than if the girl makes the first move. I don’t
    know what women are so nervous about. :S

  • datingcoach 2 years ago

    Very true. Unfortunately, many women are cooler and more aloof when guys
    try to approach them, when it costs nothing just to be pleasant and polite.
    This is to the gals who blow off guys they’re not interested in: please
    realize that a guy’s really putting himself out there when he approaches
    you. Put yourself in his shoes and consider how tough it is. If you’re not
    interested, just politely tell him, but don’t cop out with rude behaviour
    or insults. Just be nice! Kat

  • datingcoach 2 years ago

    flirting is verbal and physical foreplay. you interest a woman and increase
    her level of attraction with it. if you can engage and interest her with
    humour, you’re halfway there. even hot girls will go out with average guys
    if they’re charming and interesting . you have to learn how to develop that.

  • inzaghidaix 2 years ago

    im not good looking, i guess flirting is just for handsome guys. to me, its
    just a waste of time.

  • Bobzeaux 2 years ago

    How do you flirt? Just say “hello”. The guy is ALWAYS going to talk to you
    if you take the first step, which is more than what happens when situations
    are reversed.

  • Bobzeaux 2 years ago

    It’s much easier to assume that men are flirting with you more than just
    being friendly. The next guy who comes your way, think to yourself “would
    he approach me like this if I were a random GUY walking down the street (or
    wherever you are at the time)?”. If you don’t think so, just be polite and
    receptive and see where he may want to take things. Just don’t be on the
    defensive if he finds you attractive. You never know what kind of a prince
    you may be shunning. :S

  • datingcoach 2 years ago

    Any guy can learn how to flirt and relate better to women, with some
    instruction, an understanding of how attraction develops, and then
    practicing what he’s learned. Eventually he’ll feel more confident and will
    attract more women. I’m a coach, (in Toronto!) and have clients call me
    when they’re not getting results on their own. We work together to move
    them forward and develop romantic interactions with women.

  • enzarto 2 years ago

    So I feel like these are just words, what can I do to take action? Is it
    just practice, is there a technique? I am in the Toronto area, should I be
    paying for a dating coach? Do you recommend that?

  • inzaghidaix 2 years ago

    ok, assuming they get good at it, and then what? I do not find “introducing
    myself or buying women drinks in order to talk nonsense to them” fun or
    even close to entertaining. This is a cruel world mate, I haven’t seen good
    looking women end up with ugly guys with medium income. If I can earn a lot
    of money, i can date 12 years old girl…..Then i guess its not really
    FLIRTING at work……

  • datingcoach 2 years ago

    Hi Amy, Thanks for the feedback! I don’t know if I’ll be creating a video
    on how men flirt anytime soon, but I’ll post some comments here about it
    when I have some more time. Why not try flirting when they’re being
    friendly and see what happens? The absolute best way to tell is to test
    them and see how they respond. Take care and happy dating, Kat

  • datingcoach 2 years ago

    Sometimes the guy won’t, if he’s shy or nervous. I have male clients who
    have major issues with this. No matter how interested a woman seems, they
    want to run and hide. So yes, start by saying hi, but be patient and help
    him along. 🙂 Kat

  • datingcoach 2 years ago

    hey there, no, flirting’s for everyone, not just handsome guys. i teach
    male clients how to flirt, and as their confidence builds, they get good at
    it. why do you say it’s a waste of time?