Added by on April 1, 2015

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Arash Dibazar gives a powerful lecture on how we have been miseducated about women. As we grow up we are told to always respect women and others but we are rarely told to respect and praise ourselves first. This type of mentality leads to a lot of self doubt and putting your self in a position of lower value which cause you to lose out on having a more enjoyable life and getting women. Watch as Arash gives you his mental process to deal with the issue of respect.



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  • Peter Babeu 2 years ago

    Now I am wondering, what is considered valuable by women besides money,
    muscles and good looks and having a truck load of options when it comes to
    women, which no one studying this has?

  • cr0uchingtiger 2 years ago

    Might I suggest a ‘third way’? First you get shat on, then you do the
    shitting on. It’s not very advanced. Instead, become centered enough that
    if someone tries to shit on you, it bounces off you and lands on them.

    I’m not a Christian, but I like to challenge my ego and remaining cool,
    maybe even being compassionate, in the face of aggression, is actually
    pretty badass. I’ve seen it happen.

    Had a mate who was a goth (on a night out) and some angry youths started
    shouting at him and his unusually dressed friends. Now, goths can’t fight,
    so when he stepped toward the group, he had NO backup. The ring leader
    actually ripped open his shirt and started making threatening postures etc.
    etc. my mate walks up to him and says “look mate, you’re drunk and I’m
    drunk and that makes us equal.” and then hugged the dude.

    Unbelievably, the other guy and all his mates erupted in a kind of applause
    and friendly back-slapping. It’s a real example of a third way is all I’m
    saying. Can’t set your watch by it, but the guy was a very strong,
    charismatic goth who also happened to be a pacifist. 

  • Mu Nachtlicht 2 years ago

    Advice if you are into shallow women… though, if all you want is to fuck
    some nice woman, why not get a prostitute? Its easier, cheaper and less

  • Frangelico Vasquez-Solis 2 years ago

    “I’m not after logically explaining shit to anybody, especially to a woman”

  • john doe 2 years ago

    The first 2 minutes is the most accurate,eye opening truth I ever heard.
    Fellas, this man is teaching.

  • Mr82sizzla 2 years ago

    100% FACTS…..

  • Antonio Alves 2 years ago

    this guy is a god

  • Humberto Hidalgo 2 years ago

    Good ideas! However, what the fuck about answering his cell phone when he
    is being a spokesman

  • HYCbruno 2 years ago

    1:51 hapenned since i started going to the gym…feelsgood.jpg

  • cellan88 2 years ago

    I didnt get the last part, wouldn´t the girl see you as a player if you
    told her you got tons of alternatives?

  • Duh Enlightened One 2 years ago

    shut your phone off and focus on your job.

  • shun23 2 years ago

    Man, you’ve taken PU coaching to the next level. Although you are a pickup
    artist (guru) you sound a lot like a natural. Also the quality and accuracy
    of your advice has helped me a lot lately so thanks. You’re like this
    eloquent preacher but of the Pick up arts! Hey maybe Joel can take some
    lessons from you sometime haha

  • Hassan Maqsood 2 years ago

    Awesome speech. but dude, cmon, your text message can wait till after lol 

  • jaatendi 2 years ago

    This guy is the devil

  • trevor byron 2 years ago

    Was one of arash’s best speaches.

  • rasool zakee 2 years ago

    thats me

  • josefo ruiz 2 years ago

    this man knows his sh!@#t dude!

  • Arma Glove 2 years ago

    Good one….

  • NexisFilms 2 years ago

    I watched the whole thing .
    Very engaging speech .

  • Jesus Christ 2 years ago

    you must believe in JESUS.
    God loves you, you must
    REPENT and BELIEVE in the Son of God,
    JESUS Christ, to be saved, or else…

  • Sterling Lowery 2 years ago

    It would certainly help if we were Rich & Famous.

  • tarynh86 2 years ago

    Also if you stay tuned, he can show you how to teach girls to get the paper
    in the morning, and bark when they need to go out.

  • Eric Cartman 2 years ago

    THis guy is going to look scary as fuck when he’s in his sixties hahahaha

  • Frank Haber 2 years ago

    The first two character traits are important to a certain degree, they make
    you very confident and about the last you´re totally mistaken, he LOVES
    women. Also have you noticed he never deletes any comments or anything
    aiming at attacking him? It´s because he really has those balls and
    couldn´t care less what some punk thinks of him! 😉

  • Luis Calderon 2 years ago

    Damn one of the best lectures I’ve heard thus far from Arash! Golden.

  • Timchang1 2 years ago

    Philosophy that kings live by..

  • gillbeatsisback01 2 years ago

    im blown away by how similiar you’re speech is with tyler’s from RSD,not
    saying that your a copycat or somethin,but their material is also good you
    should check it out.Gonna watch more of you’re videos see if i can extract
    more info,maybe something that i didn’t know. I know it takes a long time
    to reach the conclusions you listed in this video so RESPECT.

  • andy80186 2 years ago

    lol he says that he does not care about here, but he is watching that
    cellphone all the fucking day

  • Nonya Bizness 2 years ago

    this fag likes the dick

  • Nonya Bizness 2 years ago

    eye liner boy likes the knob

  • Moop Cow 2 years ago

    This guy is legit.

  • Nonya Bizness 2 years ago

    you are a weak FAG

  • justcommenting76 2 years ago

    Superficial and BADDDDD advice save your money and your heart and dont
    listen to this conman charlatan who want to take your money and loser!!!!
    Get an education and meet ladies not Hos and dont be a bullshit artist.
    Meet women who have minds and hearts and values. This is just the most low
    class convict-minded deluded sad nihilistic crap from a guy that got hurt
    and trying to make everyone else bitter instead of getting over it he is
    just crying all day. He is like a bitter insecure girl.

  • justsomeguyy 2 years ago

    These are the most underrated set of lectures on youtube. I feel absolutely
    privileged to have access to these. You’ve successfully stolen me from RSD,
    you are the SHIT.

  • friendlygoggles 2 years ago

    SeductiveInstinct . I’m a foreigner living in Spain. Used to have
    reasonable success with women: not ugly and I work out; but now I can’t get
    a woman to save my life because I’m marginalised from society (what male
    wants to include another competitor in his social circle?!) and therefore
    have zero social value. This is clearly not a problem for female foreigners
    here as they instantly find boyfriends. Is it better for a man to stay in
    his own country to acquire respect and economic stability?

  • DavePazz 2 years ago

    Save your money? These videos are free…

  • SonyCamry 2 years ago

    im short and ugly what do i do

  • Von Leigh 2 years ago

    This guy is the truth

  • jayrperiod 2 years ago

    RSD all day.

  • slipper329 2 years ago

    this is exactly some of the bullcrap my GF wants me to do

  • Sterling Lowery 2 years ago

    Arash is a deep Philosopher and I can tell he is a real PUA who can get
    high quality women consistently.

  • António josé da silva rocha 2 years ago

    Arash animal!Lol

  • fuckoff 2 years ago

    lol she isn’t a 9 or 10 if she isn’t intelligent

  • nutsack666 2 years ago

    this dudes a fag

  • TheDomeOfGenesys 2 years ago