Added by Leon McAllister
on October 31, 2014
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I am heading out on a first date to go feed the ducks and walk along the
river. Thanks for the advice!
What about if he takes you to a restaurant you have to sit opposite to him
other wise it would seem strange.
How I love this channel
Does anybody know what company his t shirt is?
Great advise Matty!.Its relevant.Cheers
https://payhip.com/b/DVt4 hope this helps….
”don’t sit opposite each other” AMEN! finally someone said that, thank
you. I find it so awkward
I say Matthew should help us practice dating by taking us out on “pretend”
dates 😉 We’ll call them “exercises”
given that he gives dating advice, mr hussey must spit some pretty good
game to catch his prey
Won’t it seem weird to sit directly next to someone on a first date though?
What if you don’t kiss on the first date??
If he auctioned himself off for a date I would be okay with that.
Yessss I totally agree
This stuff is GOLD!!!
This is VERY culturally unique. In some cultures, touching on the first
date is inappropriate, let alone kissing someone.
Fair call. He makes good points, but what are you supposed to say to a guy
who perhaps asks why you want to sit next to him as opposed to in front of
him, when every other couple in the vicinity isn’t?
So true about the 0 to 60 on a first date kiss. On a blind date once I
hadn’t anticipated the kiss since we hand’t really had much physical
contact throughout the date. Then at the end he just pulled me in and
kissed me. Sounds romantic right? Well it wasn’t. I was like “WTF!?” and my
instant reaction was to push him off me. The date ended so awkwardly…
that second one is especially smart.
Im going out for ice cream with this girl but im pretty sure we r gonna sit
opposite each other, if shes going to sit opposite me, do i tell her to sit
next to me? I just feel like that is awkward too since it looks weird
Very helpful tips, I hope when I get to have a date I remember it :D
If it’s a restaurant and a 4 sided table, sit at 90 degrees to him. Easier
to see the face and yet people watch, etc. I’ve done that and it’s much
more comfortable and makes it easier to have a conversation.
Matthew, can you answer this comment? I dont think ur a real person. ;>
Great advice. I have a challenge for you though. What should I do or say
when we’re riding an elevator? The doors close and everyone just stops
talking. Been there twice with the same guy. Help.
Ugh he’s so attractive! And that accent mmmmm
wow, that sitting next to them tip is pure genius!
Best advice I’ve ever heard.
Went on my first date last night with a guy I’ve liked forever, mine wasn’t
awkward at all bc we’ve known each other forever and been friends. I saw
this in my sub bar for YouTube and watching it explains why it wasn’t
awkward thanks for helping me to understand why this one worked so much
better than the others
great tips Matthew, I naturally do number two most of the time but 1 and 3
The one about sitting in front of each other is so true. Been there, I
carried on the conversation speaking about silly stuff just to avoid the
You are literally genius
Is it wrong not to want someone to be so clingy? I’m quite young but i
can’t seem to find people that are ok with not talking to me every 5
you are my hero ! :)
Not only would I touch him early and often, he would be in mortal danger of
being eaten with a spoon.
Yeaah I’m the nervous kind, find it hard to start conversations ..
I met this woman last week conversation went well and we clicked instantly
and then we started talking about kissing I wanted to kiss her right then
and there but then I thought I just met this woman about 30 minutes ago
should I have done it? I must say this though she was a bartender and I
didn’t want to make things seem awkward to everyone in the bar…
i asked a guy out and we had the best first date EVER! it was instant
chemistry after knowing him for around 4 months but just as friends, and we
talked for HOURS and time flew by. we sat side by side, and it never felt
awkward. im still seeing him!
GENIUS! how didn’t i think of that !?
Matthew you’ve been working out man
I don’t know why people make things awkward for themselves! Its simple.