Added by William Roberts
on October 14, 2014
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But but but do we let him win at bowling or actually kick his ass?
But the real question is.. is Matthew a Hussey..
Such a great idea. I’m kinda subtly blunt though, if there is such a thing.
If there is no chemistry…and I mean no hope in hell, even if they feel
otherwise then I tell them straight up, but I did clear my schedule for the
date so I still ask them if they’d like to hit mini putt or something fun
just treating them like an aquaintance, pay my own way through, have some
laughs even awkward ones and we’d part ways knowing we both can handle the
dating game and still come out on top even if we didn’t romantically click.
Don’t get me wrong, if he’s a total creeper or a whacko, the excuses roll
off the tongue like meltin butter. Lol. I panicked one time and after
pushin away from his groping for the umpteenth time I said “Ooh dang, gotta
go, those gas prices won’t stay reasonable past ten.” Gawd lol
MATT, my dear faithful friend who never lets me down: please make a video
about how to manage dating several men at the same time. I met someone else
yesterday in a club, spent all night long dancing with him, the man was
more my type physically than the one I dated on Friday but I don’t know
much about him. I was both flattered and turned off as he tried to kiss me
many times & wanted to bring me at his place. I don’t trust cute strangers.
(cf. Ted Bundy! lool!) So we took the taxi together, he paid for my fare
and I went back home alone without being intimate in any way with him. I
kinda want to be loyal towards the other man I went on date with on Friday.
I want to get to know them both, see how it goes and make my choice later
if necessary. The 2nd guy asked me out today for a promenade in a parc.
Sweet! I said no (recovering from my busy weekend U know) but offered to
meet next week for a coffee. If he does care, we will meet. Well I just
want to take my time, no rush and find someone to share great moments and
have an amazing relationship with.
Has anyone ever gotten a response from him YouTube?
there should be a channel like this for guys too…
Sounds way more fun than a boring dinner!
That’s actually pretty brilliant. However, I would consider the #1 problem
is this stupid current trend my generation has of refusing to label dates
dates, lest you appear over-anxious. So, as the result you go out with
these people not knowing until you’re about halfway through the evening if
it’s really a date or not. It’s terrible.
1rst compartement is drinks, 2nd is bowling…whats the 3rd? bring him back
to your apartment? did i miss something?
Thank you Matthew! So… like.. where is your girlfriend? 🙂 Jusssst
This is soooooooooooooo smart. Definitely doing to do it. I love your
videos btw. Super helpful
“There’s a bowling alley around the corner. Are you, are you good? I’m
gonna kick your ass. Let’s go bowling.”
Haha if anyone said that to me, it would immediately accept that challenge!
Sounds like a perfect first date to me!
This makes so much sense! Fantastically smart too
I have a problem when I meet guys and there is an instant attraction I’m
short with words or I worry about other friends not wanting us to start
dating and even friends who r in relationships will even compete for
attention of the guy so it depletes my efforts of even to try to go for it
because I’m afraid of having difficult consequences with the friends I
hangout with. And I really don’t feel comfortable flirting around friends I
feel that there watching me to gossip about me later plus I get nervous and
Don’t know what to say and this scenario has happened countless times. Do u
have any advice for me.
Haha in the case with my boyfriend atm, our first date had 4 components…
Well maybe 5 actually. Started out with meeting up and deciding what we’d
do. Travelled on public transport to an area of the city where there was a
bowling alley/bar and restaurants, all the while chatting. Then decided to
get lunch at a place he suggested. But I love good food so couldn’t resist!
And then he paid for my meal when I went to the bathroom. Then we went
bowling, then we travelled to a different part of the city and bought movie
tickets for a movie we wanted to see but there was a while to wait so we
went exploring around the area and found a restaurant we wanted to go. Not
enough time to go before the movie so after the movie we went there. Then
It was late so he walked me to my car, and then we hung out in my car for a
while lol. It was like 5 dates in 1! Definitely a good sign I reckon!
Having been on a first date dinner from hell, this advice is awesome.
I truly loved these tips and I’ve always been adamant about never
committing to dinner as a first date but suggesting meeting for coffee, tea
or a drink and then taking it from there without the expectation of what’s
Jesus, You are godsend! thanks for saving me an awkward night Matthew!
This channel is so helpful, i´m never unsubscribing, well, maybe when i
get married, maybe! hahha
i´m jk, i´m your audience for life, you earned it :)
See these videos are wicked!!!
that really cool thanks Matt we can’t wait for the next 🙂
I’m not dating with anyone, but I’m here to see Matthew, he’s charming. I
can sit all day to hear he says.
Brilliant idea if you don’t know him well enough. I got stuck having to
sit in the whole dinner with a man who seem to be looking for a replacement
mum rather than an actual partner. After that i vow not to go on a date
with a guy until i’m certain there could be something instead of a means
to find out if there will be something. plus I want a guy to put a lot of
thought on a date with me. Then I know he wants to impress me. I want him
to value it. I hate dating
On what email can I ask you questions?
If only men and woman could read each others minds to know what they really
Love it! Really great common sense strategy for a first date.
simple and effective, thank you.
As always great vid Matthew! Though I wish you would’ve given an example of
what can happen in the 3rd segment of the date if it’s going well. It’s
self-explanatory I guess but people new to the dating world would
appreciate that I think. Thanks for the tips and love you lots!
This is a great tip!
Great tips. This might just inspire me to begin dating again. …and I
will kick that booty! Thanks again.
Thank you so much! I’m going on a first date tomorrow and I feel much more
prepared! I hope this strategy works :)
This is such a genius idea. I never thought of it this way. Awesome and
makes so much sense. Not that I need to date anybody 🙂 (I’m already
married). But at least I’ll know what piece of advice to give to my
children when they grow up. Thanks, Mathew.
Great video Matt ! I’ll see you next year 🙂
so the third compartment is someones bed right ? 😉 well thats a real